LOVIN' YOU

There are things in life that you can’t hold on to forever no matter how much you fight for it. Sometimes “destiny” isn’t always good, it becomes playful. When you meet someone you learn to love, you think that it was “destiny” that made your paths cross. 

But what if making your paths cross is just a part of the game that “destiny” plays? Making you realize in the end that the person you thought that was destined for you wasn’t really meant to stay but only destined to make you feel loved, and then leave you when you’ve already fallen. 

We can love someone and just be happy about it even if we know that it cannot last forever. It is not about having someone. It is not about owning a relationship; it is just about being happy because you know you have loved someone. 

There is a purpose and meaning behind all events and this purpose and meanings develop you as a person and a lover. Whatever relationship you have in your life now, they are precisely ones you need at this moment.

If you want him to ask you out, find a way and do it. Most guys just need a little push in the right direction. It is always a risk to like someone and it involves time, patience and understanding to get someone’s heart to open you. At times it will work. Other times it won’t. But that’s why you called it a risk-you invest in something and there’s a possibility you won’t win. 

However, you still get something in return: strength of heart and mind, and the assurance that you won’t have any regrets from not trying.  There’s no sadder word in the English language than the word “if”, so fill your life with the word “when” instead. That way, when you grow old you can tell your kids, “When I did this, I learned this”.

There are things we regret, words we wish had gone unsaid, beginnings that had bitter endings, chances we threw away, roads we should have never taken, signs that we didn’t see, hearts we hurt needlessly, and wounds we wish we could mend. 

The past can’t be rewritten, but it can make you stronger. Be thankful for every change, for every break in your heart, for every scar. Pages were turned; bridges were burned, but YOU HAD LEAR

Some things aren’t meant to be kept forever, you know you have to stop and let go when things aren’t going right and everything you did is unappreciated. Remember what Batman says? 

“It’s wiser to be alone but happy, than with somebody who does nothing while you’re doing everything”.

A thousand pair of eyes may speak of overwhelming admiration over you, and sometimes, it could be flattering.     Sometimes it draws a smile on your face but at the end of the day, no matter how many people express such adoration, you’d still want to be with the person who doesn't only see you as someone to be praised, but seeing your weaknesses, still embraces and kisses you, and shares your laughter and pain; 6 billion people and sometimes all you need is “ONE”.